A Heartfelt Musing ......

Do you ever wish it? Especially when you parted ways not due to an argument or misunderstanding but due to unforeseen circumstances? An incomplete puzzle to all the questions that kept spinning in your head? Or a discontent to the whys? A dissatisfaction to the what ifs?

Yet, when one meets up again after umpteen years, would not both of you have changed? Physically, emotionally, mentally .... feelings? Would the old feelings remain? What if the two of you have already have new partners? What is the point of the meeting of the person who once holds your heart when you know that nothing will come out of it? Is it worth it?

Do we really understand? When we really meet that same person - either fate or coincidence - especially when it evokes all the buried feelings and emotions, do we really understand the reason why?  Especially when each of us have a complete, stable and loving family - is it worth the risk of getting "involve" all over again? Even though most of the questions are answered, puzzles fall into place, the whys are explained .... do not we, as mere mortals, question the reasons behind the meeting? As the saying goes - be careful what you wish for .....

That is fate. What is written in the stars. Thus, do you believe in fate? Or is it just a coincidence? We believe that everything happens is as what has been decreed by the Almighty. Whatever we do, if it is meant to be, it WILL be. Hence, if we meet up then it is fated that we meet. But all the side effects - the old feelings and emotions - do that come with the package as well? Or is it a test to upset our already stable and secure life?

Thus, can we agree with the quote above? I personally think it is too good to be true. As mere humans, we will not upset the balance of the life we have created when we part ways. Yet, there are others who will seize the second chance thrown at them. Let caution goes to the wind .... do we dare? There is a saying that "some people are meant to be in our hearts but not in our lives ..."  

I wholeheartedly believe the quote above. At the end of the day, the question is if that person is really meant to be in your life? Or just in your heart? Only you have the answer. Fate or coincidence?  :-))